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How to negotiate on a property

Six things that genuinely move the price, from someone who sits on the other side of the table every week.

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Six negotiation tactics that actually work

These are the things I watch work from the other side of the table, and the things I watch buyers fail to do. None of them need confidence or a silver tongue. They are decisions you make before you are standing in someone's kitchen.

All six are complete. Nothing is cut short to make you buy something. If you only read this page you will still buy better than most people do.

1

Put an expiry on your offer

An offer with no deadline is a free option for the seller. They will use it to go back to every other buyer and say they have something in hand. Your number becomes the floor other people bid from.

Give it a genuine expiry. Twenty-four to forty-eight hours is normal and nobody will think you are being difficult. It forces a decision instead of a shopping trip.

Say it like this

This offer is open until 5pm Wednesday. After that I'll keep looking.

Only do this if you mean it. If you extend twice, the deadline stops meaning anything and so do you.

2

Make the terms do the work, not just the price

Buyers negotiate price. Sellers care about certainty. Those are not the same thing, and the gap is where you win.

A settlement date that suits them, a larger deposit, a shorter finance clause or fewer conditions can all be worth more to a seller than another few thousand dollars. Ask the agent what the seller actually needs. They will usually tell you, because it helps them close.

Say it like this

Before I put a number down, what would the ideal settlement look like for them?

Never shorten a finance clause unless your broker has confirmed you can meet it. Missing it can cost you your deposit.

3

Never negotiate against yourself

You offer. They say the seller wants more. You raise. That is the whole trick, and it works constantly because it feels like progress.

If there is no counter-offer, there is nothing to respond to. Ask for their number in writing. Silence is not a rejection, and it is not an invitation to bid against nobody.

Say it like this

Happy to consider a counter. What number is the seller actually putting to me?

4

Find the ones nobody else is looking at

Off-market and pre-market properties exist in real volume. Agents often have a list of sellers who are getting ready, or who tried once and pulled out. Less competition, more room to negotiate.

The way in is simple and almost nobody does it: pick five agents in your suburb, tell them exactly what you want and that you are ready to go, and follow up every fortnight. Be specific. Vague buyers get forgotten. And check for withdrawn and relisted properties, which are usually motivated sellers.

Say it like this

I'm looking for a three-bed in this pocket up to $700k, finance approved, can settle to suit. If anything comes up before it's advertised, I'd like a look.

5

Say almost nothing about yourself

Three sentences buyers say every weekend that cost them money: we have been looking for ages, we could stretch if we had to, and we absolutely love it.

Each one tells the agent where your ceiling is and how tired you are. Ask about the property instead. How long has it been listed, has the price moved, why are they selling, what settlement do they want. You get real information and give away nothing.

Say it like this

How long has it been on the market, and has the price changed since it was listed?

6

Write down your walk-away number before you inspect

This is the one that actually saves money, and it costs nothing.

Work out from comparable sales what the property is worth, decide the number you will not go past, and write it on your phone before you walk in. Then the inspection only answers one question: is this as good as the ones that sold?

A number decided in daylight is much harder to talk yourself past than a number you invent in a hallway with someone watching.

If you find yourself justifying why this one is different, that is the moment the number was for.

There's more where this came from

The full negotiation toolkit is $29

The Get a Better Deal Kit has the comparable sales worksheet I use to set the number, the full set of scripts for agents and auctions, a property scorecard, 50 red flags to check, and an inspection checklist. Work through it in an afternoon.

It is the difference between knowing these tactics and having the numbers to use them with.

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In the kit

The six above are the thinking. This is the paperwork.

You can use everything on this page without buying anything. What you can't do for free is the part that takes the longest: working out the number, and having the exact words ready when someone puts you on the spot.

The comparable sales worksheetHow to find the right three, and how to adjust for the differences
Twelve more agent scriptsFor auctions, multiple offers, and being told there's another buyer
What to say when they ask your budgetThe four ways this gets asked, and what to say to each
How to read an agent's price guideWhat 'offers over' and 'buyers from' actually signal
Auction day, step by stepWhere to stand, when to enter, and the number you wrote down
The building and pest conversationHow to use a report to renegotiate without losing the property
Property scorecardScore any place against the same criteria so you stop comparing feelings
50 red flags checklistThe specific things I look for, in the order I look for them
Inspection checklistWhat to actually do in the twelve minutes you get
Offer letter templatesWritten offers, with the terms that make a seller say yes

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Before you use any of this

Negotiation is the last five percent. The money is made earlier, when you work out what the property is actually worth. A confident negotiator with the wrong number just loses money faster.

Start with the free calculators to get your range, log what you inspect with the Open Home Log, and if you have found a specific place, send me the address and I'll check it properly for $49.

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